Help – The Law of Attraction doesn’t work!

You’ve seen the film, read the books, say your affirmations, visualize, write your goals and listen to the tele classes, yet you are still not experiencing the results you desire. What’s going wrong here, why isn’t the law of attraction working?

The self help guru’s and stars of The Secret make it seem so easy, so why isn’t the Law of Attraction working for you?

There are several issues here and one or more may apply to your situation.

Firstly the Law of Attraction works every time, all the time, but perhaps not in the ways that you are seeing results at present. The story of Jack may help to clarify this point.

Jack hates his job. He works in an office doing unfulfilling work with co-workers he doesn’t really get along with. He dreams of starting his own business and becoming a millionaire. He starts the day with his affirmations, carries his goals card in his wallet and even has a vision board as a computer screensaver, yet he is frustrated by the seeming lack of progress.

Let’s imaging that Jack is wired up to a vibration meter which measures his level of positive attraction. In the morning it starts high and then grows with his affirmations and goals review. Throughout the bulk of the day however it sinks as he allows the current circumstances to drain his faith and confidence that his dreams are coming true. Negative people, news stories and headlines all conspire to bring his vibration down. Consistent emotions are the key factor in manifesting through the law of attraction.

If Jack’s predominant state is one of frustration and unhappiness he will usually be at a lower frequency than the things he is trying to attract. The occasional spike from an affirmation or visualisation will not be of sufficient power or duration to bring about a change.

He then may begin to feel negative associations with his goals and dreams. Rather than looking at a picture of his dream home and feeling how great it is to live there, he experiences the frustration and disappointment of not living there and doubts that he will.

You may have heard about the Law of Gender, which tells us that things take time to manifest. Despite what you may have seen or read, sitting in a chair and imagining driving a new car is not going to immediately bring one to your driveway. In the time gap between the thought and the manifestation it is important to keep your emotions high and act with faith and belief.

The farmer plants a crop in the spring in the certain expectation that it will be ready for harvest later in the year. He does not spend the interim in worry and doubt or imagine life without the crop.

By sending out your intention and emotional vibrations you will receive ideas and guidance to make it a reality. In order to receive the guidance you need to be open and clear of negative mind chatter. This is why so many teachers recommend meditation as a daily practice.

For Jack to attract his dream home he may see a contest in a magazine or receive the inspired idea to earn the necessary money. If he is not open to the intuitive nudge or lacks the faith and belief to take action, then the dream home will remain just a dream.

In conclusion if the Law of Attraction is not working for you be aware of your predominant thoughts and feelings. Imagine your vibration meter, is it consistently high or do you allow external people and influences to bring it down?

You may also like to consider a daily discipline to quiet your mind and allow you to better receive the messages of intuition, be that mediation, quite reflection or a walk in nature.

The third message to take away is one of faith. There are so many stories and shared experiences about how the Law of Attraction has brought what seemed to be a miracle. If that can happen to someone else then it can also happen for you. Act with faith and believe that great things are unfolding for your good.

3 Comments

  • By Elsa, August 15, 2010 @ 8:01 am

    This post is really helpful to those who are confused where to go and what to do, I also found some useful information at http://www.johnassaraf.com, it offers Transformational Coaching that is suitable for everyone who want CHANGE.I hope this helps.

  • By admin, August 17, 2010 @ 11:45 am

    Glad you enjoyed it Elsa. I’m also a big John Assaraf fan!

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